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Signs that your partner is having an affair

Dr. Lana Staheli has provided these facts to Divorce partner from her book "Affair-Proof Your Marriage".

Common signs that your partner may be having an affair:
  • Weight loss
  • Change in hairstyle
  • New clothing
  • New smells-Perfume, soaps, cologne
  • Fresh shower smell - most people don't shower twice a day
  • Clean car-inside and out
  • Repeat number on phone
  • Time away to run errands
  • Excuses not to spend time with you
  • Bringing up someone else name frequently
  • Mundane complaints about you or about life
If you want to know if your spouse is in an affair, ask! ...nicely. Don't try to catch them or trap your partner - people will lie.

* NOTICE: * Any advice provided here represent the opionions and research of the writer and are for informational purposes only. For guidance relating to your specific needs, contact a professional.
About the Author:

Lana Staheli, Ph.D. is a certified Counselor and a Consultant and expert on interpersonal relationships and life strategies, and has had a successful private counseling practice for over 30 years. She is the Co-founder and Vice President of the Global-HELP Organization, has authored three successful relationship books, and has been featured in and been quoted in many substantial publications and networks, including Washington Post, MSNBC, and, and has been a guest on several television talk shows.
Dr. Lana Staheli's recommendation for Divorce Partner visitors:
Affair-Proof Your Marriage : Understanding, Preventing and Surviving an Affair  Dr. Lana Staheli 

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